I recall being at dinner with the Chinese Ambassador in Malta some years ago. My boss and mentor had invited me, so as they were in the throws of a discussion about power and money, I sat listening.
The conversation was leading down a path where there was no delineation between power and money. That money gives you power and being in a position of power brings you money. I still recall the unease within me – the restlessness that comes with knowing there is another truth.
Not being able to hold my tongue any longer, I posed a question “Did Mother Teresa have power?”
They looked at me stunned, and then smiling, the Chinese Ambassador nodded at my boss.
I don’t know about you but discussions of this nature have always intrigued me, and how we all too simply assume that one brings the other. Of course, this is very much the truth in some cases, as can be seen amongst some of the regimes and heads of state that exist around the world. But it is not the whole truth.
A similar debate ensued with a group of Russians, some of which were sons and daughters of oligarchs. This time the discussion was around the difference between being rich and being wealthy. If a person is rich, are they necessarily wealthy? If you have lots of money but are not happy, are you wealthy? If you don’t feel free to do or be what and who you are, would you feel wealthy?
In my opinion, wealth goes deeper than the number of digits behind a dollar sign and is more closely linked with the quality and richness of life. By this I do not mean just about how we create a quality of life for ourselves by buying things. Rather how our character, way of being and manner of doing things impact the quality of our experiences internally and externally. In a way, wealth is more closely linked to legacy, purpose and our role as members of the human race – humanity.
Nelson Mandela had once said, “In judging our progress as individuals, we tend to concentrate on external factors such as one’s social position, influence and popularity, wealth and standard of education…but internal factors may be even more crucial in assessing one’s development as a human being; humility, purity, generosity, absence of vanity, readiness to serve your fellow men – qualities within the reach of every human soul.”
In doing your own search for what is important to you, here are some things for you to think about and consider:
- If you were to find out a product you buy was produced in a way that conflicts with what you deem to be moral, fair and ethical, would you still buy it?
- Do you care enough to ask the extra question and find out?
- Do you consider and understand the ripple effects of your decisions and the impact they have?
- Do you have the courage to speak your truth and not follow the status quo?
- Do the means justify the ends, and how do you balance these?
- Where do you draw the line about what and who you care about and what you are willing to do about it
- In the final count, is wealth perhaps about our ability to enrich the lives of others?
Deborah has the ability to sense the underlying potential of people and their ideas. Previously a successful headhunter, she is a catalyst for business as a force for good, and works with founders, entrepreneurs, successors and innovators in building businesses with purpose and profit.
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